I recently had a conversation with a partner where we realized we were both sitting on client opportunities that would be perfect for them. But instead of just passing the lead, we started thinking—what if we pitched it together?
Turned out to be the right instinct. We won the deal, split the work, and the client is happier because they’re getting capabilities from both sides. But the process to get there was… messier than it should’ve been.
Here’s what went wrong initially: no framework for how leads actually flow between us. Who qualifies a lead? At what point do we loop in the other partner? How do we split the commission? What happens if both partners have a conflict of interest? We literally had those conversations during the pitch, which is chaos.
Now I’m building a system that actually works:
Lead intake & qualification: I created a simple shared tracker. When a new inquiry comes in, I log it and flag whether Partner A or Partner B (or both) might be a good fit. Criteria are clear—industry, budget size, geographic focus.
Decision trigger: If a lead could work for multiple partners, we have a 24-hour conversation. Not a long meeting—just: “Does this fit your current capacity? Are you interested?” If both want it, we decide immediately whether it’s a co-pitch or a referral.
Commission structure: This was the thorniest part. We now have clear rules: referral deal (Partner A gets 20% of Partner B’s project fee), co-delivery deal (we split by deliverable, not by overall project), joint pitch (we agree on split before pitching).
Joint pitch process: We divide responsibilities clearly. One of us owns the relationship and discovery, the other owns delivery proposal. We brief each other extensively before any client conversation to make sure we’re aligned on scope, timeline, and approach.
The difference has been noticeable. We’ve gone from “maybe we should work together” vagueness to concrete lead flow. And it’s actually generating revenue for both of us.
But I know this is young—I’m probably missing something in the process. When you exchange leads with partners, where does it usually break down? What’s the piece everyone gets wrong?