I’ve been on both sides of this—pitching rates to brands and hiring creators—and I realize how easily negotiation turns into an awkward dance where nobody says what they actually mean.
When I pitch to a US brand, there’s this unspoken expectation that I’ll come in high so there’s “room to negotiate.” When a creator sends me a rate card, I automatically think there’s 20% negotiable. But honestly? This wastes time and builds resentment. A creator feels like I’m insulting their work. A brand feels like I’m overcharging them.
I want to change how I approach this. Instead of playing the anchoring game, I want to negotiate on value, not just price. That means I come to the table with real numbers, real justifications, and flexibility on other variables besides just the fee.
Like: if a brand’s budget is 30% lower than my quote, instead of dropping the price, I offer fewer deliverables, longer timeline, or different exclusivity terms. Or if a creator I love is priced higher than planned, I ask what could make the deal work for them—retainer instead of one-off, longer commitment, category partnership.
But here’s what I’m really wrestling with: how do you propose these alternatives without sounding like you’re just trying to squeeze value out of them? How do real negotiators in this space actually approach this?